Parenting ADHD with Annie Adjan
Annie Adjan
Welcome to the Parenting ADHD Podcast! I'm Annie Adjan, your host, and certified academic and ADHD coach. Visit https://www.annieadjan.com for more free resources and personalized support! Each episode is dedicated to helping parents, educators, and students navigate the world of academics and personal development. We'll delve into a variety of subjects shaping every learner's journey, touching on executive functions like metacognition, effective time management, study skills, stress management, and so much more. We'll demystify the science of learning and offer tools to enhance our ability to think about thinking. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance for your child's academic success, an educator aiming to inspire, or a student pursuing excellence, "The Parenting ADHD Podcast" provides practical, science-backed strategies for all. I'm here to create an inclusive learning environment for all learners, regardless of neurodiversity. Here, we celebrate the transformative power of education, break down barriers, and promote academic growth and personal development. Join me and let's unlock your child's potential together. For personalized support, feel free to apply for a free coaching session at https://www.annieadjan.com Let's pave the way to success, one episode at a time.
Categories: Kids & Family
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If you’ve ever wondered “Why did that simple comment blow up?” — this episode is for you.
Parents of ADHD teens often unintentionally make symptoms worse with the words they use. In this episode, I share three common language mistakes that quietly escalate anxiety, shutdowns, meltdowns, and fibbing — and I give you exact scripts to use instead.
These small shifts can dramatically reduce power struggles, improve honesty, and strengthen your connection with your teen.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
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Why replacing “but” with “and” changes everything for the ADHD nervous system
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How “why” questions trigger threat responses and emotional shutdown
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What to ask instead of “why” so your teen stays regulated and engaged
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Why ADHD teens fib — and why it’s about anxiety, not dishonesty
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How yes/no questions unintentionally invite lying
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Simple scripts that promote honesty, cooperation, and accountability
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How inclusive, low-demand language builds trust instead of tension
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Previous episodes
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58 - What Not to Say to Your ADHD Teen (And What to Say Instead) Fri, 30 Jan 2026
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57 - Screen Addiction and ADHD Teens: What Parents Need to Know Wed, 28 Jan 2026
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56 - How To Handle ADHD Meltdowns and Outbursts Mon, 26 Jan 2026
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55 - 5 Rules for Communicating with your ADHD Teenager Fri, 21 Nov 2025
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54 - ADHD Morning Chaos? Fix It the Night Before Mon, 17 Nov 2025
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53 - Why Your ADHD Teen Does NOTHING After School (And How to Fix It) Fri, 14 Nov 2025
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52 - How To Help Your Teen With ADHD Organize Their Thinking Tue, 11 Nov 2025
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51 - The 80% Rule: Helping Teens with ADHD Know When They’re Really Ready Tue, 04 Nov 2025
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50 - 5 Ways to Help Your Teen with ADHD Handle Big Emotions Wed, 06 Aug 2025
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49 - Beyond Nagging: ADHD Systems That Actually Work Wed, 07 May 2025
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48 - Managing Video Games with ADHD - What Parents NEED to Know Mon, 28 Apr 2025
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47 - The Motivation Hack That Stops ADHD Procrastination Wed, 09 Apr 2025
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46 - Executive Function: The 10 Skills Behind ADHD Struggles Tue, 01 Apr 2025
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45 - Why "soft choices" are different than "soft parenting" Mon, 03 Mar 2025
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44 - Why do teenagers with ADHD have blindspots? EXPLAINED Sun, 02 Mar 2025
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43 - Rewards Don't Work When Parenting ADHD Sat, 01 Mar 2025
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42 - Parenting ADHD LIKE A PRO Fri, 28 Feb 2025
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41 - The "Study Teach" Method | Parenting ADHD Wed, 26 Feb 2025
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40 - 3 Keys To Parenting ADHD Kids | ACTION LIST Tue, 25 Feb 2025
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39 - How To Handle Oppositional Defiance | Parenting ADHD Mon, 24 Feb 2025
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38 - "At least" Technique | Parenting ADHD Sun, 23 Feb 2025
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37 - Master Emotional Regulation with Mindfulness Techniques Fri, 06 Sep 2024
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36 - Unlocking Your Teen's Potential: Scaffolding Strategies for ADHD Success Sat, 31 Aug 2024
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35 - Unlocking Productivity: The 'Now or Never' Technique for Teens with ADHD Fri, 16 Aug 2024
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34 - Mastering Money: Financial Literacy for Teens with ADHD Mon, 12 Aug 2024
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33 - How to Support Your Teen's Working Memory Fri, 09 Aug 2024
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32 - Focus Together: Body Doubling for Teens with ADHD Tue, 06 Aug 2024
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31 - Parenting Oppositional Defiance in Teens with ADHD Sat, 13 Jul 2024
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30 - Rethinking Screen Time: Strategies to Protect Our Teens on Social Media Tue, 02 Jul 2024
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29 - Empowering Families with Pro-Social Parenting: Nurturing Connections and Resilience Tue, 02 Jul 2024
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28 - Summer Success: Time Blocking Strategies for Teens with ADHD Thu, 27 Jun 2024
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27 - Unlocking Potential: Harnessing Your Teen's Passions to Navigate ADHD Wed, 26 Jun 2024
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26 - The ADHD Brain Doesn't Learn From Its Mistakes Sun, 02 Jun 2024
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25 - Mastering ADHD Parenting: The Conductor Approach Tue, 14 May 2024
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24 - A Powerful Parenting Strategy: Calm. Strong. Done. Mon, 29 Apr 2024
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23 - The Power of No-Punishment Parenting Fri, 08 Dec 2023
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22 - From Nagging to Empowering: A Simple Reminder System for ADHD Teens Wed, 22 Nov 2023
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21 - How to Parent Oppositional Defiance with Your Teenager Mon, 13 Nov 2023
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20 - How to Boost Brain Processing Speed for Teens with ADHD Mon, 13 Nov 2023
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19 - ADHD and Its Hidden Companions: Unmasking Comorbidities Wed, 25 Oct 2023
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18 - Do You Know These 7 Executive Functions? Wed, 18 Oct 2023
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17 - Protect Your Teen from Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria Tue, 03 Oct 2023
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16 - A Simple Way to Understand Your Teenager's Brain Wed, 27 Sep 2023
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15 - How to Cool Down Your Fired-Up Teenager Mon, 18 Sep 2023
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14 - The Art and Science of Praising Your Teenager: What to Say and What Not to Say Wed, 06 Sep 2023
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13 - What NOT to Say to Someone with ADHD Fri, 01 Sep 2023
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12 - The Magic of Metacognition Sun, 30 Jul 2023
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11 - ADHD Parents: Their Greatest Fear Sun, 30 Jul 2023
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10 - How Many AP Classes Should My Teen Take? Sat, 01 Jul 2023
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9 - How to Prevent Summer Brain Drain Thu, 29 Jun 2023